Shout-free zone
Get your kiddos to tune in to your wisdom!
Skip the shouting and get your kiddos to tune in! If you’re a parent, you know the struggle is real when it comes to getting your little ones to listen. One minute you’re asking nicely, and the next, it’s a full-on opera of yelling and protest!
But hold your horses—your mini explorers aren’t trying to challenge your authority; they’re just lost in their own little worlds, oblivious to the urgency of brushing teeth or hopping in the tub. So, ditch the power struggle and connect instead!
Next time you want to get something done, try these tips:
Here it is: the five-point formula to get your child to listen. Establishing a connection is a must.
- Make a connection: get down to the level of your child and make a connection before making a request
- Don’t repeat: If you made a request and it has been denied, go back to step 1. First, establish a connection.
- Use fewer words: Keep it short and crisp to catch his/her attention
- Give choice: instead of barking orders, give them a choice. Something like, “Do you want to take a bath now or in five minutes?” can get you a better response than “Take a shower now.”
- Stay calm: It would never help to raise your voice. When you raise your voice, they only hear the noise, not the words.
